Kita sering menilai seseorang sebagai "lame" n pelik (i dont know the right term) apabila kita jumpa orang-orang yang ada minat dan kesukaan yang berbeza daripada kita.
"beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder" <<< what is your opinion on this? beauty is SUBJECTIVE kan?
and in MY OPINION, our interests can be categorized as SUBJECTIVE. Its good in its own way.
MOST PEOPLE (here) think that they are ALWAYS right. In what way? in JUDGING and DECIDING. They (can say as 100%) believe that what they love as the most right thing that others should follow, its like others should love what they love. Bukan nak cakap mereka memaksa kita utk suka apa yang mereka suka, tapi CARA mereka menilai apa yang kita suka tu kadang-kadang (MOST of the time actually) SALAH.
I've been meeting this kind of people really often, with the kind of attitude where they keep on "blaming" me for what I like and what I think is correct.
but i believe that not the majority that could win the "game" if what they do isnt according to the rule. Yang SALAH, tetap SALAH. Kalau kita, sebagai golongan minoriti, beberapa kerat je pun, kalau kita buat benda yang betul, keep on standing for that. PERTAHANKAN what you think is right.
UMPAMA.... anda sebagai sebatang penyapu dikelilingi sekelompok sampah-sarap. bayangkan, kalau ada tak bertindak dengan betul, lama-lama, anda akan jadi sampah juga.
PERUMPAMAAN lain.... anda sebagai sebatang pokok yang berbuah, dikelilingi pokok-pokok kecil lain yang sedang membesar. Kalau anda selalu saja biarkan yang lain menyerap mineral dari tanah, tetapi anda hanya berdiam diri, buah-buah daripada diri anda pasti akan gugur sebelum sempat matang.
SAMA juga macam kita YAKIN, tapi sering biarkan diri di rendahkan yang lain, tak mustahil suatu hari nanti kita akan LENYEK.
my point here is if there is anyone who doubts your interests and your thoughts, keep your feet there, STAND UP FOR IT !!! (This order goes to me)
SEDIH apabila minat aku dipertikai. SEDIH apabila cara aku dipersoal. KENAPA?
AKU juga selalu mempersoalkan cara orang lain tetapi aku tidak memburukkan cara mereka melainkan cara itu betul-betul buruk.
Tak kira di mana kita berada, jaga mulut. Fikir dulu sebelum cakap. Bukan sekadar menjaga hubungan, tetapi juga demi menjaga keseimbangan. Fikir siapa target yang anda nak "bash".
Perhaps you think that you know them, but the reality is you DONT. Pernah heart-to-heart? NOPE? THATS WHY!
Okay this is another problem among men. Susah sangat nak mengambil tahu isi hati orang lain. EGO tinggi sangat. Demi menjaga ego, sanggup tengok sesuatu hubungan runtuh. Heh..
Opss. It seems that I've gone too far. :-P
A PIECE OF ADVICE: If you wanna keep your relationship with others to be good and perhaps make it better, learn to appreciate them. learn to respect what they love and fond to. Kalau salah, betulkan dengan berhemah. Tegur, nasihat. Give and take, bagi mereka peluang untuk bersuara. Jangan kita sorang je nak menang. Kita bukan maksum. Masing-masing ada kelemahan. So, this saying proves that you, me, have weaknesses that we have to admit. Setuju? :-)
Kalau kita nak hormat kita, hormatilah orang lain terlebih dahulu.
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